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Editorial · v3.7· 2026-03-16 00:19:16 0
Summary Learning & Personal Development Advocates
This personal essay advocates for embracing productive risk-taking and overcoming fear-based self-censorship as essential to learning and human flourishing. The content demonstrates strong commitment to freedom of expression, lifelong education, and personal agency across multiple life domains (music, sports, writing). The author explicitly connects courage to learn with human development and capability-building, aligning with UDHR principles regarding education, thought, and expression.
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Art 18 ↔ Art 29 —The right to freedom of thought and conscience (Article 18) and freedom of expression (Article 19) must be exercised responsibly; the content resolves this by advocating 'safe' expression and learning within constraints of protective technique and awareness of consequences.
Highly recommend Rodney Mullen's public speaking on the greater value of Skateboarding and the importance of falling (i.e., it teaches you how to get back up).
Falling down when you're 50+ is a HELLAVA lot riskier than falling down when you're younger.
This appears to be a blog post about risk tolerance - which of course changes dramatically depending on lots of factors. If I fall as a middle-aged person, I'm much more likely to cause permanent, irreparable harm to myself - which, maybe not worth the rewards.
“ If you take a lot of chances, that adds up eventually and you'll have some big wins. Just do it safely, so that they don't add up to a lot of big losses, too.”
“Just” do it safely. If it’s safe, you are not really taking chances.
I've gotten much more cautious since I had a fall a few years ago and realized that I'm not so invulnerable now. I was ice skating - I'm a very good skater and grew up on skates around the same time I learned to walk and played on traveling hockey teams my entire youth. Someone fell on the ice and I reached down and was helping them up when my skates slipped out from under me. I fell backwards and cracked the back of my head on the ice. I swear I felt my brain slosh in my head. Luckily no concussion or other injury but since then I've just taken way fewer risks and I don't plan on changing that.
> If you take a lot of chances, that adds up eventually and you'll have some big wins. Just do it safely, so that they don't add up to a lot of big losses, too.
And here is great contradiction in this whole essay. You can't "safely" take a lot of chances and not lose big, when in most cases to have big wins, one has to do unsafe things...
This is also why folks who have a safety net (in terms of family wealth, etc) tend to do better as entrepreneurs. Not sure this essay is helpful.
It's certainly important to prevent falls. Especially as adults, we tend to lack the energy to get up. In that respect, children are amazing. I recently started studying for an LLM as a hobby, but I keep falling over and spending less time getting up. I often think it would be easier to just give up and go to sleep.
I picked up inline skating at ~39, I realized that for all my cycling and lifting my balance and propreoception was crap and skiing once a year wasn't going to solve that problem.
I slapped on all the padding I could and it took me nearly a year to get my bodyweight outside of my feet and really carve at high speed. Why? Because my flexibility, strength and muscle activation all had weird gaps.
I ended up getting a slackboard as well about a year in.
I am basically impossible to knock over now, I can wear sperrys on ice, my legs and core are incredibly strong in a way lifting heavy never accomplished, I no longer have weird little muscle pains, all the muscles are strong.
When cycling I used to have occasional knee pain in my left exterior of my knee. No longer.
I've found 3 fast stretches to do after... I mean, rollerblading is basically yoga (which I find boring) at 15mph with pebbles and no ability to bail, it's fucking awesome and pretty damn hard.
I wear all the pads and it's glorious, I'm ~40 and I haven't felt this athletic since my late 20s.
I was getting sore before I started, that creeping old man shit, now I skate between 3 and 30 miles a week and its great. I skiied 3 days straight at 11k ft elevation and had no muscle soreness and no multi day fade, it was unreal.
The thing is, falling down (ie. failing at things) can take a lot out of you, physically, mentally, financially, spiritually.
For most of us, taking calculated risks is better than simply taking more risks.
And the risk calculation changes based on your personal circumstances: physically falling has a greater impact on an old person than a young person, making a financial mistake has a greater impact on someone who has no savings than someone who is wealthy, etc.
So "let yourself fall down more" isn't really one size fits all advice.
I'll join the chorus of saying that falling down at age 40 means my skinned knee is still healing three weeks later. I'm very risk tolerant, but it's striking how the tides have turned on healing.
> Falling doesn't have to be dangerous. You can fall a lot without getting hurt, if you learn to fall safely. With inline skating, you have protective gear (helmet, knee/elbow pads, wrist guards) which protect you, and you have techniques for falling which let you use this gear to its fullest potential.
Is that actually true? Is it possible with enough protective gear, that falling can be safe, even for older people? Doesn't your own body weight come into the picture, despite helmets and knee pads? (Genuinely curious!)
This really isn't useful advice since physically, economically, and reputationally, "falling down" when you're younger incurs exponentially less risk.
Virtually all legal systems make a clear distinction between "children" and "adults" precisely because of these sorts of external and embodied judgment factors.
doing something more doesn't make you better at it. learning to do it better is what makes you better. people are quite capable of doing a lot of something without ever getting better.
"safely" is shorthand here for "with an appropriate degree of safety net and recoverability". There is a whole spectrum of risk between "only carrying activities that are 100% certain to succeed" and "trying anything, absolutely anything, with no thought given to how I'll react/self-protect if things go wrong"
Signed up to walk my first ever in my life 5K at the end of this month and I'm already getting some improvement in my balance with just walking more and faster.
Tell me more about the slackboard... any particular way you play with it? 41 and have lost what very small amount of snowboarding skills I had in my 20s before I was 30. I have looked at them and the balance boards because I know I need to do _something_.
I did some napkin math the other day, and my kids at half my size prob hit the ground with 1/2 the stress that I do. Certainly could take more risks falling with a 50% reduction in harm. The extra rotational energy from 70" vs 40" will do it.
IME yes, it absolutely can be. I am approaching middle age & still comfortably enjoy pushing myself in physical activities where falls are likely, with zero significant injuries aside from a couple sprained ankles from playing basketball (& technically the ankle rolling came before the fall in these couple mishaps; letting my body roll/fall out of it just helped reduce the severity). Also it's more about technique & familiarity/reflex training than safety gear, although I do wear a Zamst ankle brace on my weak ankle whenever I play basketball & started wearing a helmet for snowboarding a few years ago. Jackie Chan & Buster Keaton were even better at this, although they pushed it a lot farther & did sustain major injuries in their stunt careers.
However, there's a big caveat: I've been practicing falling safely since a young age & really mastered it in my teenage years practicing martial arts & snowboarding. I'm sure it's much harder & more dangerous to learn if you first start in middle age, although I'd imagine it's still possible with the right training & appropriate caution.
Content directly advocates for education as a means of developing human potential. Author frames learning experiences across multiple domains (music, sports, arts) as essential to personal flourishing. Emphasizes that education should develop 'full personality' and capacity for choice.
FW Ratio: 57%
Observable Facts
Author explicitly discusses learning and personal development across voice lessons, saxophone lessons, poetry writing, and inline skating.
Content frames learning as a lifelong process: 'This is true across all the things we do as adults.'
Author emphasizes development of capability and confidence through education: 'Just do it safely, so that they don't add up to a lot of big losses, too.'
Post discusses pedagogical approach focusing on overcoming fear-based constraints on learning.
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The extensive treatment of learning across diverse domains reflects strong advocacy for education and human development.
The emphasis on developing learner agency and confidence aligns with education's human rights purpose of developing full personality.
The valorization of 'falling' and learning from mistakes reflects progressive educational philosophy aligned with UDHR Article 26.
Content advocates for freedom of expression by demonstrating how internal and external fears inhibit authentic voice. Author frames the act of sharing imperfect work as essential to growth and learning. Encourages readers to overcome self-censorship.
FW Ratio: 57%
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Author explicitly describes overcoming fear-based silence in poetry and music: 'When I stopped worrying about that and let myself write bad poems? Suddenly I was writing good poems.'
Post includes calls to action: 'Please share this post, and subscribe to the newsletter or RSS feed.'
Blog post publicly accessible without authentication or payment barriers.
Author provides direct contact: 'You can email my personal email with any comments or questions.'
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The advocacy for releasing self-censorship reflects explicit commitment to freedom of expression as a human capability.
Open access and sharing invitations demonstrate structural practice aligned with free expression principles.
The direct invitation to feedback and dialogue supports freedom of expression as a two-way right.
Content celebrates freedom of thought and conscience by encouraging readers to overcome fear-based self-censorship and pursue authentic expression. Author explicitly values the right to express oneself imperfectly: 'When I stopped worrying about that and let myself write bad poems? Suddenly I was writing good poems.'
FW Ratio: 60%
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Author states: 'When writing poetry, I used to worry that my poems would be bad, and I'd over-analyze them. I was afraid to write a bad poem, so I didn't write much at all, and what I did write I would never share.'
Author describes liberation through acceptance of imperfect expression: 'When I stopped worrying about that and let myself write bad poems? Suddenly I was writing good poems.'
Content frames internal censorship (worry, doubt, hesitation) as obstacles to authentic development.
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The valorization of imperfect, authentic expression over self-censored perfection reflects advocacy for freedom of conscience and thought.
Author's advocacy for releasing fear-based constraints on expression maps to support for freedom of thought and conscience.
Content articulates duties and responsibilities by emphasizing that freedom to learn and take risks carries the responsibility to do so 'safely.' Author frames individual choice within a context of mutual respect and consideration: protective gear, safe technique, managed risk.
FW Ratio: 60%
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Author states: 'Just do it safely, so that they don't add up to a lot of big losses, too.'
Content discusses protective equipment and safe technique as responsibilities: 'you have protective gear (helmet, knee/elbow pads, wrist guards) which protect you, and you have techniques for falling which let you use this gear to its fullest potential.'
Author frames learning within constraints of avoiding harm to self and others.
Inferences
The emphasis on safe learning practices and protective responsibility reflects commitment to Article 29's principle that rights are exercised with regard for rights of others.
The framing of learning within safety constraints demonstrates awareness of duties that accompany freedoms.
Content implicitly values human dignity and individual potential by celebrating the courage to learn and grow through managed risk. Framing centers on personal agency and self-actualization, aligned with dignity principles.
FW Ratio: 60%
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Author states: 'If you let yourself fall safely, you can learn skills a lot faster.'
Author describes personal experiences overcoming fear-based hesitation across multiple domains (voice, saxophone, poetry, skating).
Content frames falling as a necessary part of learning and development, not failure.
Inferences
The emphasis on personal agency and overcoming self-imposed limitations reflects an implicit commitment to human potential and dignity.
The metaphor of learning through managed risk suggests trust in the learner's capacity for growth, aligning with dignitarian principles.
Content implicitly supports freedom of assembly and association by encouraging readers to participate in learning communities and shared experiences (roller rinks, music lessons, writing groups). Frames communal learning as normal and beneficial.
Content frames all humans as capable learners deserving respect and the freedom to make choices about their own development. No explicit equality framing, but implicit valuation of human capacity regardless of background.
FW Ratio: 67%
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Author uses inclusive language: 'This is true across all the things we do as adults.'
Content applies same learning principle to diverse domains (sports, music, writing) without differentiation based on status or identity.
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Universal application of learning principles across diverse activities suggests belief in equal human capacity for growth.
Content implicitly addresses social security by emphasizing personal agency, learning, and skill development as pathways to self-determination and well-being. Frames managed risk-taking as path to capability and confidence.
FW Ratio: 67%
Observable Facts
Author frames learning and skill development as enabling confidence and capability across life domains.
Content emphasizes personal agency and the capacity to influence one's own development.
Inferences
The emphasis on developing skills and confidence through learning suggests implicit valuation of social security through capability-building.
Content implicitly values participation in cultural life and artistic expression by celebrating the author's own engagement with music and poetry. Frames artistic pursuits as normal, valuable human activities.
FW Ratio: 67%
Observable Facts
Author describes sustained engagement with voice lessons, saxophone lessons, and poetry writing.
Content treats artistic pursuits as worthy of serious time and attention.
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The normalization and celebration of cultural participation (music, poetry) reflects implicit support for Article 27 rights.
Content implicitly values freedom of movement and choice by encouraging readers to take risks and pursue skill development across different contexts (skating rinks, music lessons, writing). No explicit statement, but framing supports autonomous mobility.
FW Ratio: 50%
Observable Facts
Author describes personal experiences across multiple physical and social contexts (skating, voice lessons, saxophone lessons, poetry writing).
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The ability to move freely across contexts and pursue diverse learning experiences reflects implicit valuation of freedom of movement and choice.
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