ND Having Kids (paulgraham.com)
158 points by Anon84 6 days ago | 297 comments on HN ~lite vlite-2.0
Summary ~lite
The author reflects on his experience of having kids, debunking his previous fears and finding joy in parenthood.
Lite evaluation by llama-4-scout-wai-psq · editorial channel only · no per-section breakdown available
Longitudinal 273 HN snapshots · 105 evals
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2026-03-23 03:30 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-23 03:30 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-23 03:21 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-23 03:21 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-23 03:21 rater_validation_warn Lite validation warnings for model llama-4-scout-wai: 1W 0R - -
2026-03-23 02:20 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-23 02:20 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-23 02:14 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-23 02:14 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-23 02:14 rater_validation_warn Lite validation warnings for model llama-4-scout-wai: 1W 0R - -
2026-03-23 00:53 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-23 00:53 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-23 00:44 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-23 00:44 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-23 00:44 rater_validation_warn Lite validation warnings for model llama-4-scout-wai: 1W 0R - -
2026-03-22 23:11 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-22 23:11 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-22 22:57 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-22 22:57 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-22 22:57 rater_validation_warn Lite validation warnings for model llama-4-scout-wai: 1W 0R - -
2026-03-22 21:53 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-22 21:53 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-22 21:47 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-22 21:47 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-22 21:47 rater_validation_warn Lite validation warnings for model llama-4-scout-wai: 1W 0R - -
2026-03-22 20:41 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-22 20:41 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-22 20:33 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-22 20:33 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-22 20:33 rater_validation_warn Lite validation warnings for model llama-4-scout-wai: 1W 0R - -
2026-03-22 19:24 eval_success PSQ evaluated: g-PSQ=0.280 (3 dims) - -
2026-03-22 19:24 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-22 19:14 eval_success Lite evaluated: Neutral (-0.08) - -
2026-03-22 19:14 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-22 02:21 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-22 02:02 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-22 00:54 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-22 00:50 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 23:35 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 23:20 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 22:20 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 22:00 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 20:56 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 20:05 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 19:40 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 19:24 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 19:00 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 18:43 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 18:17 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 18:06 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 17:37 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 17:31 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 16:58 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 16:52 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 16:15 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 16:09 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 15:34 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 15:31 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 14:54 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 14:54 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 14:14 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 14:13 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 13:29 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 13:27 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 12:54 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 12:50 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 12:14 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 12:09 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 11:38 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 11:28 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 10:55 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 10:46 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 10:15 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 10:04 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 09:35 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 09:22 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 08:57 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 08:45 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 08:17 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 08:03 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 07:39 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 07:25 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 07:02 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 06:43 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 06:24 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 06:05 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 05:45 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 05:26 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 05:07 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 04:46 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 04:32 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 04:08 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 03:53 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 03:27 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 03:16 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 02:50 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 02:37 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 02:12 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 02:01 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 01:33 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 01:21 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 00:41 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-21 00:36 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-21 00:21 eval Evaluated by llama-3.3-70b-wai-psq: +0.36 (Moderate positive)
2026-03-21 00:18 eval Evaluated by llama-3.3-70b-wai: -0.08 (Neutral)
reasoning
Personal reflection on having kids
2026-03-20 23:36 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 23:23 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 22:53 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 22:08 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 21:39 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 21:32 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 21:04 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 20:57 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
reasoning
Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 20:28 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 20:23 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 19:53 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 19:47 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 19:16 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 18:38 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 18:05 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 18:03 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 17:13 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive) 0.00
2026-03-20 17:11 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral) 0.00
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion
2026-03-20 15:57 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai-psq: +0.28 (Mild positive)
2026-03-20 15:57 eval Evaluated by llama-4-scout-wai: -0.08 (Neutral)
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Personal essay on having kids, no explicit human rights discussion